The Upside of Arguments

Studies confirm that people in healthy relationships argue rather than stuff their feelings. Even though honest communication can be uncomfortable and sometimes lead to temporary disharmony, communicating how we feel helps keeps relationships fresh and evolving. All relationship problems result from the dynamic between both parties. What bothers one person might not be a problem for another. Communicating feelings as preferences instead of blaming the other person reduces defensiveness, quickens resolution and quite simply…

Feels Better.