Our egos rarely want to accept what is. Subconsciously, it puts up a convincing argument that we shouldn’t just roll over and let life have its way with us. We want what we want, when we want it. If we don’t get it, we complain, moan and groan. When we’re under the spell of our egos, this all seems normal and even commendable. We’re not dupes. But when we aren’t under its spell, we see how futile and silly it is to argue with reality. Accepting reality as it shows up, just tells us how things are, so we know best how to proceed. Rather than trying to stop that train, we can jump on and…

Steer it.