About lightening up, that is. Since nobody knows what the future will bring, you may not have time to do it later. Postponing enjoyment until some hypothetical future when everything conforms to your standards is risky business. Life doesn’t have to be a serious matter unless you want it to be. It’s a blessing. If you don’t know what you want out of it, start investigating right now. What are your dreams? What aspects of others’ lives look interesting, inviting, fun? Whatever you want, it wants you too. But not later…

Now.