Do you ever hold your tongue while pretending to feel or think something just to keep the peace? Is it more important to you to be liked than to be true to yourself? Ironically, people who honestly express themselves, even when their opinions aren’t popular, are appreciated because others feel they can trust them. Contrarians who take opposing positions for the entertainment value of pushing other people’s buttons are another matter. Speaking up about what you honestly feel not only makes others feel safe around you, it’s a sign of something even more important…

Self love.