It's About Our Focus

Knowing what we don’t want helps us know what we do. The magnetism of clarity attracts in alignment with our desires. Fighting what we don’t want energizes it and keeps us stuck. Helping others fight their fights only strengthens what they’re fighting against. When we notice the temptation to harbor irritation, blame or resentment, remember it’s often our identity trying to define itself in a clumsy way. Rather than fuel the flames of fires we don’t want, we can do something that will really help. Instead, shift your attention to what you want to see and...

Energize that.