The Truth About Giving

Deceiving ourselves about our motivations eventually causes us suffering. Pretending we’re giving when we’re really seeking admiration or looking for something in return will make us feel bad, if things don’t go as planned. Other people will often detect our ulterior motives, whether consciously or unconsciously. When we’re clear with ourselves and honest with others, we ask for what we want and give others the chance to respond without having to deal with murky, unspoken expectations. Giving for real requires nothing in return because the gift truly is…

In the giving.