Boundaries Bring Joy

If someone's behavior is disrespectful or hurtful, complaining and hoping they'll change is usually ineffective. Allowing unwelcome behavior without establishing real consequences communicates the message that we're okay with the status quo. When we don't set boundaries, we forfeit our rights to create the kind of life we want to live. If we want different results, we have to do something differently. Committing to following through with consequences after we've clearly established our boundaries is how we create relationships that support our lives...  

The way we want them.