The attraction of opposites often stems from a desire to feel accepted or complete. An introvert may feel enlivened by the social stimulation provided by an extrovert or an extrovert may enjoy the sense of internal depth an introvert might bring to the relationship. While these partnerships can work out well, they can also fuel insecurity and resentment, if our sense of wholeness is dependent on the other. When we’re matched with someone more like us, the love we feel for them strengthens our self-love because we accept and appreciate in ourselves, what we…

Love in them.