Positive Vs. Realistic

Making a conscious effort to be positive may cause detractors to label us simplistic and naive. But they misunderstand the power of our choices in creating the quality of our emotional lives. While it’s necessary to try to understand what’s happening in...

Supposed to…

Telling yourself that you’re supposed to be somewhere else, doing something else is telling yourself a lie. It’s coming from another lie that you’re not enough. There’s nothing wrong with wanting to improve your perspective, enthusiasm or...

How Desires Are Fulfilled

Desires are born from our past and tell us how to grow in the future. Our minds associate some specific scenario with the feeling we seek, but we can’t know if our version will, in fact, give us the feeling we’re after. That’s why it’s best to...

Identity Box

Our identities are self-created, ego-based ideas that we begin constructing early in life. Once created we operate under the illusion that our value lies in living up to them. This can interfere with who we might become as we behave in ways we think are consistent...

Love Being You

No matter who you are or what you do, you are perfect just as you are. The fact that you are alive and exist on this planet makes you worthy. You made the cut. You are unique and nobody else can do what you are here to do. Whether you are famous or average makes no...