Nobody can make us ‘hate’ them. If we are that emotionally charged about them, we are vibrating at the same frequency.¬†They are mirroring to us something in ourselves that we really don’t want to see. The intensity of our emotions indicates the degree that we dislike and are in denial about our feelings. We direct our hatred out at them for bringing up the feeling. If our own identity wasn’t involved, we could more easily meet their behavior with compassion and thank them for giving us the gift of…

Greater self-awareness.