No matter which side of an issue you’re on, when you’re in a tangle with someone, you’re both vibrating at the same level. What you’re arguing over doesn’t matter nearly as much as the energetic charge that keeps you stuck in the tug-of-war. This is because energy attracts its like. Remember this next time you’re struggling with someone: if you feel bugged by them rather than compassionate for them, you’re tuned into the same station.

Move the dial by forgiving you and them.