When something that ‘happens to you’ makes you feel bad, the emotional response you choose to reinforce will determine whether you identify as a victim or a beneficiary possessed with new insight. You can focus on feeling betrayed, helpless and sorry for yourself, while wishing things had gone differently. OR, you can use that same energy to understand how what happened was exactly what you needed to expand your understanding of yourself and the world. You can celebrate this growth realizing that being ‘perfect’ won’t make you happy, but being self-aware…

Will.

Jarl and Steve