The best thing to do with unsatisfying situations is to accept them. Resisting, denying, blaming or longing for the past only fuels discontent. Moving beyond any disagreeableness requires first acknowledging the reality of how things are. From this perspective we can calmly examine the situation and heal or transform it. Knowing what doesn’t work is one of the best ways for us to discover what does work. Rather than having knee-jerk reactions against¬†what is¬†and shooting the messengers, welcoming them and their messages puts us in the right frame of mind to find…

The best solutions possible.