One undeniable fact about every event in your life is that you were there. It never behooves you to place the blame for unwanted circumstances, whether past or present, exclusively on the shoulders of others. Not only is it untrue, it also leaves you powerless.┬áIf you had nothing to do with the unpleasant predicament, then there’d be nothing you could to do in the future to avoid a repeat experience. It may seem counter intuitive, but the more responsibility you take for your experience of life, the more control you have…

Over making it better.

Steve and Jarl