Your Inner Presence

Mar 31 2012 Published by under Authenticity, Awareness, Conditioning, Inner Presence

You were born with an essential nature. It’s been hidden by layers of conditioning that you absorbed from family, friends and society. This process is normal and necessary for your personal evolution. So is uncovering it. To access this inner presence that knows what’s right for you…

Turn within and ask for guidance.

Merci

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Why Compromise?

Mar 25 2012 Published by under Acceptance, Change, Choices, Love, Natural, Relationship

When people aren’t behaving the way you want them to, remember they’re here to live life their way, not yours. Real love means wanting everybody to live in alignment with what’s right for them. If you feel others need to change to please you, consider finding friends who already do.

Kinder.

Merci

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The Ultimate Approval

Mar 10 2012 Published by under Acceptance, Authenticity, Feelings, Value, Worry

When your behavior is in alignment with your values, you feel good about yourself. When it’s not, you worry about what others think and try to please them to feel validated. This approach leaves you scrambling and unsure of yourself. Since you can’t really know, much less control, what others think of you, it’s more effective to figure out what your own values are and act in alignment with them.

Validate yourself.

Merci

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Adjust and Adapt

Aug 31 2011 Published by under Flow, Understanding

When life disappoints you, realize it’s just because your expectations are out of alignment with reality. Just like you can’t change the weather, reality is what it is. There’s not much more you can do than correct and continue. Happily or grumpily,

Your choice.

Merci

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