It’s ultimately your story that causes you to feel the way you do. When you take responsibility for what happens, you’re in a position to change it. Identifying as a victim just keeps you weak and powerless. When something feels bad, look at how your choices led to the situation and realize that you have the power to make different ones in the future. Acknowledge the feelings brought on by your past choices and honor the lessons. No blame…

Just growth.

Steve and Jarl