If you notice yourself frequently judging people, take note. Failure to accept others is usually a sign that you lack self-acceptance. Though you probably think your judgments are about them, you’re often just reacting to behavior that you also engage in, feel bad about and project outward. When you accept yourself, scruples and all, you’re more likely to accept others with all of their imperfections. Since nobody’s perfect anyway, you might as well stop pretending that you or anybody else should be.

Take a load off.

Steve and Jarl