The way we do something is more important than what we do. Even when our efforts are meant to be charitable, if we act with hostility, acrimony or anger – the results will be tainted. There’s┬áno separation between what we do and how we do it. Wanting to make the world a better place, but behaving in a way that’s adversarial, destroys our efforts. We transmit our energy more or less imperceptibly to everyone we come into contact with. Kindness is not a quality to pursue after our good work is done…

It is our work.