Even when someone’s behavior feels harmful to you, it’s rarely ever personal. What drives their actions is usually their own desire to feel good or at least better than they do. Sometimes this results in unconscious and clumsy behavior that makes others suffer. While feeling hurt, angry or victimized may be understandable, it brings temporary relief at best. Real healing happens through love and understanding. The best way to shift out of hurt and into healing is pretty straight forward. Honor your own feelings by feeling them, then…

Send them love.

Steve and Jarl