Characteristics we appreciate in others are usually ones we also have or aspire to. Our negative judgments generally reveal our unconsciously disowned shortcomings. If we go within and earnestly investigate to see how we exhibit the same behavior, we’ll find it. It may not be in exactly in the same context, but we are likely to find some version of the same. Examining our strong judgmental responses to others doesn’t give insight into who they are as much as it helps us gain greater insight into who…

We are.