It’s never anything on the outside, but rather your own thinking about it, that causes you to feel good or bad. That’s why blaming others for your circumstances isn’t just inappropriate, it’s pointless. When you attribute the cause of your feelings to outside forces, you give your power away. If you’re not responsible for the way you feel, you’re a powerless victim. Once you understand that your feelings result from your particular spin, you’re free to re-interpret the world around you in a way that feels better.

Free will.  

Steve and Jarl