Although it’s tempting to believe that difficult situations are created entirely by one party, it’s almost never true. One hand clapping makes no sound. Antagonistic, argumentative, accusatory and mean behavior have nothing to bump up against if you remain above it. When you’re engaging with that energy, you’re (unfortunately) vibrating at the same level. If you find yourself involved in a particular argument while thinking that the other is at fault, remember this:
It takes 2 to tango.
Steve and Jarl