When you experience disharmony with someone else, it always pays to take the high road. Any gruff, rude or adversarial response boomerangs back because that energy makes others want to retaliate in kind. This starts a negative loop that’s difficult to stop. Instead of blaming, shaming, reacting offensively or defensively, pausing to employ kindness and respect creates a far better outcome. When you maintain a sense of decency and regard for others, they’ll often soften their stance, too. That’s how you move from disharmony to