Because of the various paths we’ve travelled leading to this moment, we each have distinct preferences. What bothers one is a non-issue to another. Because we don’t like something, it doesn’t mean it’s necessarily bad or wrong. Approaching differences with others from this perspective helps us express our preferences without shutting anyone down. We’re more likely to be heard when we don’t use blame or shame. Life is more harmonious when we communicate┬álovingly and remember that there’s always more than…

One right way.