Some people unintentionally make choices that result in others reacting adversarially. Even though we all occasionally experience disharmony, some of us are more frequently engaged in quibbles, arguments and battles. The feelings that this disharmony brings are so familiar that we unconsciously seek it out. We may¬†think we dislike it while subconsciously fearing that life might be dull without it. It can be frustrating dealing with (or being) a drama king or queen, but they are generally unaware that they have a choice. We do everyone involved a favor when we remind them that, in fact…

They do.