The Value of Right Friends

Being around people we like and respect is good for us. Being around people we don’t, is bad. The positive feelings we derive from healthy friendships and relationships of any kind, raises our energetic vibration and radiates out into all aspects of our lives....

Relationship Lessons

Relationships are our greatest teachers. They show us to ourselves. Once we’ve gained wisdom, we learn that we’re responsible not only for what shows up, but also for our response to it. If we’re unhappy, at the most basic level, it’s we...

Love Never Dies

If we ever really loved someone, that feeling is still within us. We may be disappointed that they no longer fit a particular role, but love isn’t about filling roles. Real love means we want the other to be who they want to be. The path of our personal...

Energy Dance

Everything is energy. Our relationships are each, at the fundamental level, a dance of energy. The nature of our connections is determined by the quality of the energy we put into them. For instance, when we come on strong, the other usually pulls back and when...

Delayed Reaction

Many emotional dramas can be avoided by simply pausing before reacting. When someone is feeling distraught and says something that triggers us, it’s common to respond from a perspective of indignation, as if to say, ‘How dare you characterize me that...

Return to Harmony

When you’re in a power struggle with someone, repeatedly hashing over the details in your mind or rehearsing what you want to say to them will not bring the energy between you back into harmony. Because everything starts as energy, dealing with troubling issues...