Blame Boomerangs

Blaming others for what happens in our lives brings no lasting satisfaction. There’s no vindication, relief or justice in blame. Whatever someone else says or does is theirs to reconcile. How we take it in and react to it is what creates our experience. Blaming...

Internet, Extranet

Just as your online activity is being watched, analyzed and used by others to target you for products and services, the meanderings of your thoughts are determining what shows up in your outer world. Your affectionate, judgmental, passionate, sympathetic and angry...

Potential

The degree to which human potential is biological versus environmental is unknowable. It’s clear that attributes such as strength, intelligence, talent and beauty differ from person to person, in the same way that how we’re loved, educated and nurtured...

Mental Static

We create our own experience of life. Though our natural state is harmony, periods of sadness and discontentment are normal. It’s easier to get back to that state of grace when when we resist recounting unpleasant tales that extend our suffering. Unconsciously...

Tool #10

Tool #10: Knowing What We Want. Knowing what we want out of life is a precondition for fulfillment. Consciously or not, we are always designing our lives through our thoughts and imagination. The kind of thoughts we cultivate determine the kind of reality we...

The Sword Cuts Both Ways

Our personal perspective creates the quality of our experience. If we see the world as dog eat dog, we’ll view others as potential threats that need to be treated with caution. If we understand how central our point of view is in determining the nature of our...