Who’s Right?

Most of us think our way is the best way. Experience convinces us that this is true. But, universal agreement about truth is rare because everyone has their own subjective interpretations and opinions vary. The best way to resolve disagreements isn’t by...

Relationships, Part lll

Softening and letting go in an argument doesn’t mean we don’t express our feelings. It means we do it with less attachment to being right or winning. It means we do it with the intention to communicate so we can understand one another. Understanding...

True Warriors

If something is said that makes you want to defend yourself or hurt back, take a deep breath and wait before you react. This will give you time to reflect, remember that nothing is personal and realize that they’re probably just feeling bad and (ineffectively)...

When in Question, Soften

The world is rich with amazing diversity. These differences can sometimes lead to misunderstandings. One person may think one thing while the other thinks the opposite. It’s hard to reconcile a difference of opinion between parties on opposing sides of a...

Nobody Does it Alone

Cooperation can give you perspective, ease pressure and improve your performance. Even when you aren’t physically working with others, very little is ever the result of a single person’s efforts. Almost everything you’ve ever done or will do is based...