We Never Know

We can never know what somebody else’s internal experience is. Some people put on a happy face no matter what they are really feeling, even when they’re in emotional or physical pain. This energy influences their vibration and their behavior. That’s...

Inside Out

Our life experience is always a reflection of our inner world. If we feel good about ourselves, that’s what will be mirrored back to us. If we’re selfish, unkind or mean-spirited, others will appear that way, too. The rest of the world could be caught up...

New Pathways

Consistency and reliability of character are considered to be admirable personality traits. However, when it comes to growth, trying out new things and new ways of looking at life is incredibly valuable. If we continue to think about and do things the same way we...

Hurt People Hurt

People don’t usually hurt others unless they’ve been wounded in a similar way in the past and are in pain themselves. Abuse and mistreatment are learned early and passed down for generations. Punishing people who hurt others without helping them address...

Can’t Know for Sure

We can’t possibly understand why others behave as they do. We’d have to be them to know. There are so many visible and imperceivable variables from their past and present that govern their choices, it’s unreasonable to assume we wouldn’t behave...

Sensitivity and Boundaries

When we’re young, we think the world revolves around us. As we mature, we begin to understand that everybody is at the center of their own world. Some of us are better at sensing others’ needs and preferences. We don’t have to lose ourselves in that...