Feelings Aren’t Truth

Because of the various paths we’ve travelled leading to this moment, we each have distinct preferences. What bothers one is a non-issue to another. Because we don’t like something, it doesn’t mean it’s necessarily bad or wrong. Approaching...

How to Communicate Effectively

The easiest way to develop good communication skills is to remember that we’re all unique variations of the same energetic force and we all want to be treated with love.  Forgetting this connection can cause us to blame, shame and guilt trip. Communicating with...

What You Don’t Know

You can never really know why others act as they do. If you’d had the identical programming and experience, you’d behave exactly as they do. For instance, If someone’s driving seems erratic or dangerous, they could actually be reckless and...

Understanding Breeds Compassion

Some see good where others see nothing but bad. Some feel hopelessness while others feel enthusiasm. We can even miss what’s directly in front of us if we don’t believe it’s possible or haven’t seen it before. Because of our (mostly...

Effective Communication

Getting angry at someone because you don’t like their behavior lacks understanding. They aren’t here to satisfy your preferences, they’re here to live according to their own. Your anger is essentially a message saying “You shouldn’t act...