by Merci Gracia | Jun 18, 2019 | Communicate lovingly
The fact that we don’t like something doesn’t necessarily mean it’s wrong. Realizing this helps us temper our reactions to unwanted events. When we respond to situations or others’ behavior without blaming, shaming or disdaining, we not only...
by Merci Gracia | Jun 13, 2019 | Communicate lovingly
At the quantum level, everything is made up of the same thing: Atoms. At 99.99999 percent energy and .00001 percent matter, we aren’t as solid as we appear. Since we’re all ultimately part of a vast field of waves and particles, any sense of separation is...
by Merci Gracia | Jun 8, 2019 | Communicate lovingly, Kindness
Every exchange we have with others is a collaborative project created by the combined attitude, energy and approach of all involved. Having a conscious intention to create a positive experience brings satisfying results. If we want to bake a cake that rises, we have...
by Merci Gracia | Apr 30, 2019 | Communicate lovingly, Feelings
Rather than communicate our feelings, it’s tempting to avoid confrontation and let things slide, especially when we anticipate defensiveness or hostility in response. However, allowing emotional baggage to buildup isn’t worth the temporary comfort of...
by Merci Gracia | Dec 26, 2018 | Communicate lovingly
Stuffing our emotions to avoid conflict ultimately results in bigger problems. No matter how uncomfortable it might feel to talk about our feelings now, it’s far easier than waiting until we’re on the verge of exploding. Emotions don’t disappear when...
by Merci Gracia | Dec 16, 2018 | Communicate lovingly
Imagine how life would feel if we mostly noticed the good in others. What if we rarely criticized and instead, related to others with curiosity, understanding and compassion – even when their actions seemed unwise, unkind or hurtful? When differences in opinions...