We can’t possibly understand why others behave as they do. We’d have to be them to know. There are so many visible and imperceivable variables from their past and present that govern their choices, it’s unreasonable to assume we wouldn’t behave in exactly the same fashion if we were in their shoes. With a bit of self-awareness, we can understand how pointless judging others is. It’s intelligent to continue to discern what does and doesn’t work for us while still embodying the quality that makes us feel good and makes the world a better place