If you truly want to enjoy your life, you need to assume total responsibility for your experience of it. Even when it seems like your happiness is enhanced or perturbed by someone or something else, it’s up to you to determine how you feel about each and every situation. You set the preconditions for (dis)satisfaction. You decide when to allow yourself to feel successful. Since you create the rules of your game, there’s really only one person who can make it a fun one.
Steve and Jarl