There will always be people and situations in life that irk you. But really, the main reason you ever get bugged is because something isn’t the way you want it. You are responsible for your feelings.┬áDon’t fall into the powerless trap of assigning blame to something or someone out there. You’re perfectly within your right to change your circumstances, ask others to take you into consideration and let others know how you feel. But if you continue to spend time with anyone who disregards your requests, you’re not really angry at them…

You’re angry at yourself.

Steve and Jarl