Trying to control others when you think they need your help rarely produces the results you desire. When you communicate your lack of faith in them, it actually reduces their effectiveness. Besides, your desire to control could be the result of your own fear. Sometimes those feelings get projected outward because it’s less scary than dealing with them yourself. Next time you feel an impulse to control others, ask yourself what you’re afraid of. Then relax and let the other person do it their way.There’s only one person you need to worry about controlling…

You.

Steve and Jarl