Looking for Validation

Our goals change as we move through different stages in life. When we’re young, we mainly want to fit in. Later, we become preoccupied with finding our special identity through our work or skills. As we get older, we hope we’ve ‘made a...

The Play of Life

We all star in our own play. Though we don’t stage the whole production, we do write most of our script, filled with dramas of delight and hardship. To enjoy the show, it’s important to remember that we aren’t just actors performing on stage for a...

No Comparison

Comparing ourselves with others is a high-risk, low return proposition. While learning about excellence from others can help us understand what’s possible, building up our egos by comparing ourselves favorably with them will eventually make us feel worse...

Feel the Pain

Each of us has a well of accumulated disappointment and hurt inside of us that is waiting to be healed. When part of it rises to the surface of our awareness, it’s an opportunity to heal it. Because it’s uncomfortable, we often repress it, seek distraction...

What We Look For

We all see life through our egos. Our perspective is created by a filter of beliefs, which classifies everything in relation to our identity. Although we all come from the same energetic source, we conveniently forget that and criticize others in order to feel...