Helping Others

When we can offer service to someone who needs help, it feels good. However, there are healthy and unhealthy ways of helping. Helping someone because we subconsciously need to feel useful, can rob them of the satisfaction that accomplishment brings. When we become...

Persistence

Persistence ensures we keep trying even when we feel like giving up. We endure because we’ve trained ourselves to look for and discover the lessons that each situation has to ofter. We know that things continuously improve. We understand that success isn’t...

Fighting For or Against

It often seems like a matter of integrity to take a stand against what we don’t want. Just how we do this has a very large impact on the outcome. We add energy to whatever we give our attention to. ‘Fighting against‘ something actually fuels and strengthens it....

Tenderness

Our words can have long lasting effects, not only on others’ feelings, but on the quality of our relationships with them. It takes only a minimal amount of effort to avoid careless speech. For such a small outlay of consideration, the effects it yields in the world...

Who We Hate

Nobody can make us ‘hate’ them. If we are that emotionally charged about them, we are vibrating at the same frequency. They are mirroring to us something in ourselves that we really don’t want to see. The intensity of our emotions indicates the...